Currrently

The weather...the It's a bit breezy, making a perfectly acceptable 38 degrees feel more like 28 degrees. It's still a darn sight better than the temperatures we experienced last week. We saw the mercury hit 44 degrees this afternoon and with the sun out it felt like spring. We were outside with our coats unzipped! Tomorrow's supposed to end up being 40 degrees, but we may have to endure snow squalls in the morning that put down up to an inch of snow. Key word is may. If we are lucky, it will miss us.

Reading... I finally finished Melania and started Secretly Yours by Tessa Bailey. The First Lady's book was interesting as I really didn't know anything about her before reading it. Now I know more, but I don't know that I feel like I know her. While the book relayed the facts and her reasoning behind many things, it felt very formal. That may just be the result of Melania's sophisticated, European upbringing. She lived a rather cosmopolitan life even as a child. I don't doubt that she views her position as a sacred trust and strives to do her absolute best. I just wish I felt like I knew more about her as a woman, a wife, and a mother. She is someone you would want in your corner in a crisis, but maybe not hanging out and spending time with as a gal pal.

Watching... with interest as President Trump flexes his administration's muscles and begins to carry out his campaign promises.

Loving... the milder weather and watching all the snow and ice melt.

Thinking... about our daughter, as usual. She is having such a rough time of it, lately. On top of her issues with anxiety and the (many) panic attacks she's been having for the last month or so, she now has an abscessed tooth. She's been in a lot of pain since Saturday. She got antibiotics yesterday and saw a dentist today. Unfortunately, the infection is so bad and she had a panic attack while at the dentist's office that they didn't do anything and do not want to do anything. They gave her 2 referrals to oral surgeons who can remove the tooth under general anesthesia. They told her there could be a lengthy wait.

As for the panic attacks, she had one on Friday while taking her son to his therapy session. She was upset, but it was actually a good thing as his therapist is also her therapist so she got to see what's going on first-hand. The therapist wrote a small prescription for something to help and scheduled her to come in on Monday. Unfortunately, she's had to keep postponing and rescheduling due to the tooth pain. I'm not sure when the appointment is rescheduled for now. Soon, I hope.

Feeling... accomplished for the first time in a bit.

Celebrating... every good moment, no matter how small.

Grateful... for my mom who has stepped up to take our daughter to late night ER visits and so many doctor appointments so I can work and not have to use up my PTO days.

Enjoying... popcorn. While at the mall today I stopped in at the Pittsburgh Popcorn Co. and bought a couple bags of their freshly made flavored popcorn. They specialize in gourmet flavors, but I stuck with tried and true movie theater butter and Wisconsin Cheddar. Yummy!

Giggling at...    

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

Saturday 9: A Summer Song

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) Are you enjoying winter? Or do you daydream about summer?  No, I am not enjoying winter. Our weather the past couple of weeks has been too extreme for me. When I have to worry about getting frostbite cleaning off my car or falling on my behind to get the mail, it is way too winter-y for me!

 

2) In this week's song, trees sway in the breeze. Is it windy where you are today? Not today. Last night (Thursday) the wind made it feel a lot colder than it already was.

3) There's rain outside their window. Have you more recently seen rain or snow?  Snow, snow, and more snow.

4) This week's artists are the duo Chad and Jeremy. As a teen, Chad Stuart was very versatile in the arts. While he enjoyed drawing, he showed real promise in music and won a scholarship to London's Central School of Speech and Drama. When you were a teenager, what were your best classes?  English/writing, history, and art.

5) Between 1965 and 1966, Chad and Jeremy played British pop stars on a variety of American TV shows, including The Dick Van Dyke Show, The Patty Duke Show, and Batman. Which of those series do you remember?  All of them except The Patty Duke Show. I don't even remember watching it in reruns.

 

6) While those TV appearances were good for the duo's record sales, they sowed the seeds of dissent between the friends. Jeremy Clyde realized he enjoyed acting far more than music and began threatening to leave the act. Chad finally got tired of dissuading him. Between Jeremy's dramatic aspirations and contract disputes, they broke up. Later they both admitted they regretted the split, but as Chad said, "we were just kids." Is there an old friend you've drifted away from but miss?  My jr. high bestie (and the maid of honor in my wedding) passed away just before Christmas. We had drifted apart over the years. No disagreements or anything, just different life paths and I've been feeling a lot of regret about it lately.

7) In 1964, when "A Summer Song" was popular, the #1 movie in the country was Mary Poppins. Have you seen it?  Of course!

8) One of the biggest news stories of 1964 was Elizabeth Taylor's wedding to Richard Burton. The bride wore yellow, with yellow and white flowers in her hair. The groom wore a dark suit, red tie and yellow boutonniere. What did you wear last time you got dressed up?  It's been so long I have no idea.

9) Random question: When you're in the backseat, do you wear a seatbelt?  Yes, but I rarely ride in the backseat. I don't get carsick, but nothing puts me to sleep faster.

Thanks to Sam over at the Saturday 9 for the music and questions!

Currently...the Baby It's Cold Outside Edition

Wherever you are this evening, I hope it is warmer than it is here and if it's not, then I hope you are snuggled up inside staying nice and cozy.

We've had a lot of winter weather in the last couple of weeks. The whole month of January, really. I took a couple of pictures last Thursday evening after we were hit with a string of snow squalls. We have a lot more snow at this point.

It's actually dark in the photo. It only looks
light because of the snow.

Looking out the kitchen window, through the icicles,
at the backyard and Mom's still there Christmas lights.

My own still there Christmas decorations.

The temperature at this hour (5:30 p.m.) is a "delightful" 13 degrees that feels like 3 degrees. The wake up temperature tomorrow will be right around -8 degrees. The windchill will make it feel like -20 to -30 degrees.

This I have learned: I would never make it as an Eskimo.

Reading... Not much of anything. I'm nearly done with Melania. It's an interesting read and look into where the First Lady comes from and what makes her tick. I just haven't been able to get myself to focus on reading lately.

Listening to... At this moment, President Trump's announcement about investing in Stargate. At work, I've been listening to a wide variety of music as I try to put together a playlist for next month's Valentine's Day party. The consumers like to dance so it's got to have a beat. Plus, the boss says no slow songs because a few of them get up to no good.

Loving... the electric fireplace in our TV stand. I've been sitting near it every evening lately. Even Oliver is curled up in his little kitty house right in front of it.

Thinking... about visiting a new church I recently learned is meeting in the old school building in our neighborhood. The pastor graduated from the local school district.

Feeling...

Celebrating... our daughter, granddaughter, and I spent Sunday afternoon making beaded pens and keychains. As I'd hoped, our daughter loves it and is hooked. Now to find a craft show we can sell them at. Once some of the display stands come in I'll take some pictures to show what we've done.

Grateful... that President Trump is now in office and getting down to business.

Enjoying... the working relationship that has developed with some of my coworkers as staff has come and gone and dynamics have changed.

Giggling at...

Currently

The weather... is cold and getting colder. It's 28 degrees and temperatures are dropping throughout the night to a morning low around 10 degrees and a windchill below 0. There's some snow coming, too, but it shouldn't be more than an inch at most.

Reading... still working on Melania.

Listening to... I've been in the mood for disco and 90's country. The folks I work with seem to be enjoying it, too.

Loving... that I finally got several rooms of the house deep cleaned over the weekend and the last of the Christmas things put away.

Thinking... about a prayer request that came through on the phone tonight. The son of people I know is being flown back to the states. He and his wife are missionaries and he has contracted typhoid while visiting Uganda. The wife is very pregnant, but will take a separate flight along with their young son to join him. All will have to be tested.

Feeling... a little achy, probably from the cold and snow coming this way. I've become that person who feels the weather in their bones.

Celebrating... my daughter agreed to my plan for us to make beaded pens, badge holders, lanyards, keychains, and bookmarks to sell at a craft show. Everything is very easy to make and it should be fun. I'm hoping it will help her focus on something other than her problems and calm her anxiety down a bit.

Grateful... that our grandson finally had an appointment today with a behavior specialist who is said to be the best of the best. He was tested more thoroughly than ever before and got a definite diagnosis of ADHD, oppositional defiance disorder (ODD), severe anxieties, and selective mutism (which is an outcropping of anxiety). Our daughter is relieved to have answers and know what she is up against. We are all encouraged by the practical advice he gave on how to deal with the behaviors that have been spiraling out of control. He also approved the recent changes to the meds. Now, to get everyone to be consistent in handling it.

Enjoying... listening to Oliver's purrs as he sits here with me.

Giggling at...

Saturday 9: Calendar Girl

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

 

1) How will you keep track of your days/weeks in 2025? Do you have a desk planner? A wall calendar? A pocket planner? Do you use the app on your phone?  I have 3 calendars in the house, a planner in my purse, and I occasionally use the calendar on my phone. For better or worse, in spite of having all that, I tend to rely on my memory more than anything.

2) Consider your typical week. Which day tends to be your busiest?  They are all busy, but Fridays may feel more busy since that is my day at work to have planned and lead all the activities (learning, craft, exercise, life skill, etc.). On top of that, our daughter often asks us to keep the kids on Friday evenings while she and her husband go shopping or out to dinner.

 

3) This week's artist, Neil Sedaka, is one of pop music's most prolific singer-songwriters, but his first love was classical music. He was so good that he trained at Julliard and won the accolade, "Best New York High School Pianist." Recall one of your passions from your high school years.  I liked writing and art. I wrote for the school paper and enrolled in most of the school's art classes. I wrote things on my own and was always drawing or doing something creative.

4) Elton John has always enjoyed Sedaka's music and in the 1970s, when Elton was one of the world's top stars, he requested a meeting. If you had the power to contact and then meet anyone in the world, who would you choose?  I really don't have any idea. Maybe a political figure? It might be interesting to hear their thoughts directly, rather than how the media spins it. 

 
5) Sedaka appeared as the musical guest during the second season of Saturday Night Live. What's the most recent show you watched on TV? Was it live, from your dvr, or did you stream it?  I just finished streaming last night's episode of Swamp People: Serpent Invasion.

6) His daughter Dara sings on TV and radio commercials. What advertising jingle sticks in your head?  "Jardiance, the little pill with the big story to tell."

 

7) In 1960, when "Calendar Girl" was popular, To Kill a Mockingbird was first published. Have you read it?  Yes, but not in school. I read it on my own less than 10 years ago. I loved it.

8) Also in 1960, John F. Kennedy, Jr. was baptized in the Georgetown University Chapel. His godparents were Charles and Martha Bartlett, the couple who introduced his famous parents. Do you have any godchildren?  No.

9) Random question -- Which did you enjoy more: the last week of 2024 or the first week of 2025?  I guess I'll go with the first week of 2025. We were still dealing with norovirus the last week of 2024. (Our grandson seems to have the virus now...praying it doesn't hit us again.)

Thanks to Crazy Sam at Saturday 9 for the music and questions!

Looking Back & Looking Forward

I've been meaning to share a little about our holidays and a few photos, but circumstances have kept me from it. Now that we're hibernating due to cold weather, I've got plenty of time.

The season really got started for us when I took my mom and granddaughter to see The Nutcracker Ballet. I've always wanted to do that, but our daughter never wanted to (still didn't) and we don't get to see our oldest granddaughter. I'm so glad I decided to go this year. Our granddaughter was so excited and loved it all.

The big party at work for the consumers was a hit as always. I can't share too many photos due to privacy issues, but here are a few.

This is me and one of the consumers I'm closest to. She is only a few years younger than me and she's a real party girl!

Santa and Mrs. Claus are played by a member of the local Lion's Club and his wife. They are always great and this year Santa played along to play a joke on a consumer. This consumer had been joking, going on and on, to everyone that we'd been bad and wouldn't be getting anything but coal for Christmas. Then he said everyone should just stay home on party day because there wouldn't be presents...while also saying he'd open them all. I started telling him that HE was the one getting coal and all the staff and office staff got in on it. I found a little bag labeled "North Pole Coal" and put some candy coal in it. When it was his turn to go get his gift from Santa (they even made him the very last one) Santa told him he had a special gift for him and handed him the coal. He was sure surprised, but a good sport and laughed along with everyone.

Looking across the multipurpose room with everyone seated for dinner.

The Saturday before Christmas I ran into Santa and Mrs. Claus at the grocery store. They allowed me to take a picture and sent a message to our grandchildren to be good, because they were watching!

Christmas was less than ideal. Tim came home from work on the 23rd terribly sick. Looking back I'm sure he had Norovirus. It hit him hard and he completely missed out on Christmas. 

After opening gifts with Tim, I made dinner and took it over to our daughter's along with all the presents for everyone. I'm very thankful our son-in-law was able to come over and help me load it all up and then unload it at their home.

The kiddos had a wonderful Christmas and between home and all the grandparents got everything they asked for (and a few they didn't ask for as Colton let us know...spin toothbrushes did not excite him). We enjoyed our meal, playing games with the kids, and of course, watching the Steelers game.

Playing Guess Who with our granddaughter.

One of the few photos of our grandson that isn't a total blur. They are having some trouble adjusting his ADHD meds right now and he was especially hyper on Christmas.

At about 11:30 pm on Christmas Day the virus hit me. It wasn't fun, but it lasted less than 24 hours. My mom came down with it Thursday evening and had it for 3 days. Her husband came down with it Saturday and it hit him hardest of all. He is just now feeling back to normal.

Oliver took good care of me when I was sick.

He's been enjoying his Christmas present.

Tim is at that phase of a work project when he is working a ton of overtime to get everything done. He didn't even get home on New Year's Eve until 7:30 so we didn't do anything. He was asleep by 8:30 so Megan kept the kids at home and Mom and John were keeping to themselves because of the virus. New Year's Day we took down the tree and inside decorations and watched several movies.

I kicked this weekend off by getting my nails done after work. I got rid of the sparkly, red Christmas color and went with a pretty purple. I love the pampering of a manicure.

Tim took Saturday off as he had promised back at Christmas. It figured it was one of the coldest days we'd had so far. We went ahead and did some running around in spite of that.

We need a new storage shed in the worst way and have needed to go look for a long time. We finally did that (I think my nose has finally thawed out) and found one we can both agree on. Yay! 

We also looked at, found, and purchased a lift recliner. It's for me. I don't really need one, but every once in a while when the inflammation flares up at its worst, I need Tim to help me get up. I was worried it might happen some day when he isn't around. It also has heat and massage, which will be nice now. It's not due in until the end of February at this point.

We had a late lunch out and did our grocery shopping so we could stay home today. Tim still went out for a short while. He got more salt for the sidewalks, de-icing windshield washer fluid, and filled my gas tank. Other than that we've just relaxed and watched TV.

I've started a new Bible study. It's called Dear Food, I Love You, I Hate You, Don't Leave Me! It's by Julia Fikse. I bought it a while ago but never got started on it. It isn't a diet, but rather a program meant to help you put food in its proper place in your life...and put God first. I haven't gotten very far into it, but it seems good.

Lastly, I want to share my One Word for this year. It's Victorious. There are many places in scripture that speak of victory, but I'm holding to this one...

1 Corinthians 15:7 - But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

I can not do this. I have proven it time and time again. However, if I turn to Christ first, not relying on myself, He is faithful and will lead me to victory.

And now I'd better call it a night and get ready to head to bed early. We are under a winter storm warning tonight and all day tomorrow. We are expecting 6-10 inches of snow. If the morning is as ugly as they predict I'm going to have to leave very early for work.